Josh wrote and asked: There's this girl in my class who is in love with me, following me around and always making eyes at me. My friends are laughing at me. What spell can I use to get this girl off my tail/out of my hair?
Added Aug 24, 2012
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The first rule: Be kind to her. Be a gentleman.
There is nothing worse in the whole wide world than to love someone who doesn't love you back. If you've never been in love you can't begin to imagine just how bad that is or how much it hurts. I've been on both ends of this on many occasions ... sigh ...
OK so. For the spell to get the girl out of your tail ... that's simple enough.
Write her full name on a piece of paper and burn it.
That's a basic magic disconnection pattern and extremely effective.
One doesn't have to say anything, actions speak louder than words. This is a powerful magical statement which is universally understood.
In the outside world, be kind, please. I don't mean encourage her in any way but just don't scowl at her, don't growl at her, don't avoid her. Be calm and do your own thing. If she makes a direct pass, be steady, be kind and tell her you don't feel like that about her.
Both together should do the trick and help her to move on without breaking her heart any worse than it has to be.
It is good magical practice to treat other people like you would want to be treated if the tables were turned. So when you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you back - and it will happen eventually! - you too will be treated with kindness.
Blessings to you,