Break Up Love Spell - Cutting The Ties That Bind Us
Tiffany wrote: Hello, I would like to request a spell to break up my relationship. My boyfriend is a very kind and gentle soul and I wish him no harm or heartbreak. I want us to stay friends and for him to be happy. The problem is, a few years ago, we bound each other by using a ritual.
I need a spell powerful enough to break it but also a spell to keep us friends. Can you help?
Cutting The Ties That Bind Us ...
Break A Love Spell & Make A Friendship Spell
Tiffany wrote: Hello, I would like to request a spell to break up my relationship. My boyfriend is a very kind and gentle soul and I wish him no harm or heartbreak. I want us to stay friends and for him to be happy. The problem is, a few years ago, we bound each other by using a ritual. I need a spell powerful enough to break it but also a spell to keep us friends. Can you help?
Yes, Tiffany, I can. And it's a good job the poppets are here, because they are PERFECT to help break a love spell.
The poppets are really simple - just make yours out of anything, from modelling clay to wax, cut the shapes out of paper or whatever you have to hand. Salt dough is also very simple and useful, you can use that too.
You can read here how my poppets were made.
Cutting The Ties That Bind Us Spell
Make two poppets, on is to represent you, and the other to represent your boyfriend.
You can personalise them by adding some hair or just writing their names on the poppet somewhere.
As this is a demonstration, mine are left completely blank.
Take some red string or ribbon and tie the poppets together. Make the knot where it ties around each poppet be approximately in the heart area.
As you do this, think about the time when you made your vows and pledges, remember all of that and have it be real.
When you are done, take a moment and look at the two poppets, tied by love because that takes us from what was then to right here, and right now.
Now, and only when you are really ready, take a sharp pair of scissors and say:
"The time has been,
The time has gone,
what once was tied,
is now undone."
Cut the ties that bind you quickly and positively.
Again, take a moment as you then also untie the remainder of the strings from the poppets themselves, and focus on a very positive sense of health and freedom for both who are now untied.
For the "cutting the ties that bind us" part, we are now done.
Others who read this and just want the relationship to be over, completely free and clear, can now dispose of the poppets by wrapping them in a separate cloth each and just put them in the bin as their job is done.
If you want to be more dramatic, you can throw them into a river or the sea to represent "going on their lives paths" but that's up to you.
At this point, you can also bless them both, do healing on them or for them, pray for them and all sorts - just go with what comes to at the time.
In this case, we want the relationship to continue but to turn from a romantic (red) relationship into a friendship (yellow).
So we take some yellow string and tie it to each of the poppet's wrists and we say:
"Together we stay,
Friends all the way,
You and me,
So shall it be!"
Now wrap the poppets up together in a cloth and put them in a safe place. Should they get lost or accidentally destroyed, and the friendship weakens, make two more poppets and bind them likewise with the yellow string.
If or when you don't want the friendship anymore, you can "cut the ties that bind us" just the same.
A Note: If you are using this "cutting the ties that bind you" spell and your partner can be expected to suffer major trauma or heartache by losing this relationship, it is a very good idea, after the cutting and tie-removing, to spend some time focussing on healing their heart. You do this by gently rubbing the heart area of the poppet and chanting,
"Heal the scars of old,
heal the scars untold,
heart be strong and
heart be bright,
what was wronged,
is now made right."
Keep repeating this until you feel all is well with your ex's heart and all the pain is gone. To finish, you can give the poppet your best blessing and a little farewell kiss on the forehead, and you can know you did a job extremely well.
Adding this healing ritual can save you a lot of aggro as with this you don't have a furious ex, out for your blood, hounding you for the next months or years or decades, either spiritually or practically!
SFX March 2007