Now I get a lot of spell requests, but the one single spell most requested above all is "What spell do I use to get my Ex back?" I've always been dubious about this but there is a way to make these spells to get back those who have told you they don't love you anymore (!) actually work - and also, why they generally fail if you don't know this.

Cathy writes: Dear SFX, I need a spell to stop me from obsessing about someone who is an enemy and lets no opportunity go by to attack me. I feel under attack all the time. I don't want to fight back, that's just going to give him even more power over me - do you have a spell to get my mind off that man so I can get on with my own life instead?

Magic names are very important in magic, but they also crop up in the form of internet nicks and aliases.

• The right magic name can help you and the wrong one can practically curse you.

Here is what you need to know about magic names and what to do to find yours.

Tiffany wrote: Hello, I would like to request a spell to break up my relationship. My boyfriend is a very kind and gentle soul and I wish him no harm or heartbreak. I want us to stay friends and for him to be happy. The problem is, a few years ago, we bound each other by using a ritual.

I need a spell powerful enough to break it but also a spell to keep us friends. Can you help?

Magic isn't so much about rituals or herbs, or even spirits and deities, than it is about using your will to alter the fabric of reality.

One way how this is done, and perhaps the most important of them all, is to learn to use your intention to change an inanimate object into a "magical" object - this is like adding an invisible yet perfectly real layer to the object that creates ripples of change behind the scenes.

A perfect exercise for children of all ages is to make a loving charm bracelet for someone they hold dear and whom they wish well.

I get a lot of request for magic weightloss, weight loss spells etc. There are many ways to go about it, but in this case, I thought we'd bring in the big guns and a higher power champion to help us change, day by day. This is the Venus Evocation for magic weight loss, and it is excellent.

Megan wrote:


> Message: i would love to know of a spell for selling a house. many thanks

Create Wealth, Harmony and Flow For A Company

Dear SFX,

I am working for a company that is having trouble with cash flow. I really like it here and I like the people and I would love to do a spell to reverse the company's fortunes. What can I do?

SFX: Here's an idea for you.

At home, get the company logo (from a letterhead perhaps) and place it in the center of a table, or on the floor.

Sometimes, you come to the end of an "in life incarnation". You know you can't go on like you used to, and a major transformation is required now. What used to be comforting and good has run its course, and that could be a job, a relationship, where you live, or all of it at the same time, and CHANGE is what needs to happen.

This beautiful "Butterfly" spell calls on the fascinating power of metamorphosis and calls new opportunities for a complete life transformation into your unfoldments.

Denise writes:

I have a guy that i really like and he keeps saying he loves me but I want to know if its true. Is there any spell I can do because I really need to know if he truly loves me.

A short spell and ritual to conclusively consign a person to the past, so there will be no further future with that person - no relationship, no connection, no karmic influences, and practically, no meetings, news, etc. Clear cut and straightforward "people removal" spell that does not deny the past which existed.

Spell Keywords: Luck spell, understanding what luck is better, aligning with luck and fortune, being fortunate, being lucky.

Spell Keywords: New ideas, bright ideas, new thoughts, new solutions to old problems, thinking in new ways, getting new and better ideas come in, creative solutions.

Tari writes: Dear Starfields, Please help me My father is very dominating and has too much control over me. He does not allow me to see my boyfriend. I'm 28 years old, and have to be back home at 7 pm and can never stay the night or weekends with my boyfriend. This is effecting my relationship with my boyfriend. My father does not accept my boyfriend and told him to leave our home. I do so much for my father and help him with his paperwork and cook and clean for him since my mother passed away. All I get from him is abuse and he enjoys his life. Please help me. I feel so sad and hopeless. All I want is my freedom, happiness and peace. Thank you.