First Aid Spell

Cathy writes: Dear SFX, I need a spell to stop me from obsessing about someone who is an enemy and lets no opportunity go by to attack me. I feel under attack all the time. I don't want to fight back, that's just going to give him even more power over me - do you have a spell to get my mind off that man so I can get on with my own life instead?

Stress is a big deal and very dangerous to our lives. Stress can destroy our health and it definitely makes us "stress stupid", causing us to take ill thought out actions and make bad decisions. As to being a radiantly magical person, stress de-stabilises your entire system, causing magic to become unpredictable and disturbed.

Getting stress down is essential for all forms of magic, but what kind of spell can you do against stress when you're stressed already?

I received a request from someone who was very upset because a "certain word" was being used on them, to hurt them, on a regular basis by "silly boys" in their environment.

Now it is said that "Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words can never hurt me" but that is actually not true.

Sandra writes:

My latest boyfriend cheated on me, treated me terribly and now he's left me. I am all alone - again. I have a lovely daughter and a son, but I'm just so sad and I am afraid I'll never find someone now.

Can you help please?

This is not a response to a single message, but an ongoing "cry for help" from one particular individual about all sorts - health, wealth, relationships, self esteem, EVERYTHING needs a spell because it is going wrong or so it seems.

Fact is that if you're in such a situation, "a spell for this, and then a spell for that" just isn't going to cut it. All those many different manifestations are all related to a basic freakout at a very basic level.

This sort of chaos is NEVER cured by finding yet another guru and yet another spell, but it needs to be addressed from the inside out.

This is what I said to the person in chaos after the umpteenth request for yet another spell for yet another problem: