9 wasted months of your life.
Which is *not* infinite, do remember.
It really beats me why anyone at all would want someone in their lives who doesn't want them.
Someone who has PROVEN BEYOND ALL REASONABLE DOUBT that he/she doesn't love them, doesn't have eyes for them alone, wouldn't climb mountains and cross oceans to be with them.
What is that?!
Make a decision to put this mess into the past and GO FORWARD towards a NEW relationship that is - extraordinary, and joyful, and EASY. A relationship that MAKES YOU HAPPY and where you KNOW they won't cheat on you, or run out on you, or even want to break your heart.
Those are your guidelines to know when something is meant to be.
That is my advice.
Rays of clarity and sense,
Spell To Put Lover Into the Past:
Cutting The Ties That Bind Us:
A General Note On The "Bring My Lover Back" Spell Desires:
People, listen up.
When someone leaves you, walks away from you, divorces you, moves in with someone else, THEY DO NOT LOVE YOU.
That is YOUR SIGN THAT THEY DON'T LOVE YOU!
I can't shout it any louder.
As soon as something like that happens, REALITY HAS SPOKEN loud and clear:
THIS PERSON IS NOT YOUR SOUL MATE.
If they were your soul mate, they would do ANYTHING to stay with you, ANYTHING.
They would slay dragons for you and they would have eyes for YOU alone.
You made a mistake when you thought they were "THE ONE".
They can NOT be "the one" if they break your heart and leave you!
It is a very simple thing, and all YOU have to do is to accept that, and get your head around the fact that you are supposed to be out there, looking still!
OUT THERE, LOOKING FORWARD!
Because you haven't found your perfect lover yet!
And if you don't stop digging around in the past and turning away from your future, you might find after 25 years or so that you have not only MISSED MEETING THE ONE in this incarnation altogether, but you have also RUN OUT OF FUTURE.
Then you lie on your death bed with a WASTED LIFE and nothing but regrets.
Get a grip!
Yes, I know it hurts to be rejected.
Yes, I know we can be terribly stubborn and like to cling on to some decision we've made in the past.
Yes, I know that the last love is always "the one" that eclipses all others.
We thought that too when we were teenagers and totally in love with some boy band or girl band illusion.
There's only one way to heal all of that, and that is to find the NEXT ONE.
Who might themselves not even be "the THE ONE" just yet - but who might lead you in the right direction to find your soul mate eventually. But this can only happen if YOU KEEP ON MOVING FORWARD in your life!
PLEASE, dear heartbroken readers all, young or old, whatever you are, STOP hankering after an illusion from the past, and START going out to find a reality of love for your future.
Let the old one go, don't romanticise the past, live in the now and look to the future.
And what if the old one comes back, tail between the legs, and says, "Oh I want you back I've made a mistake, I have changed now ..." (Oh yeah right! As if!)
Sing them a chorus of "Cry me a river" and close the door firmly on them.
YOUR REAL SOUL MATE IS OUT THERE SOMEWHERE.
BELIEVE IN REAL LOVE. ACCEPT NO SUBSTITUTES!
BELIEVE IN MIRACLES.
BELIEVE IN THE FUTURE.
BELIEVE IN YOUR RIGHT TO JOY AND HAPPINESS.
That is my will for you and all of us.
Spell To Put Lover Into the Past: