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Rose writes:
First of all thanks for a great website I'm on here everyday. I've got a bit of a problem. I've been practising magic now for several months but nothing I've done has worked. I've lost confidence in it which I know will just mean that things don't work again and I seem to be trapped in this vicious cycle. Is there anything I could do just to restore my confidence. A very small spell that I could see working quite quickly would be ideal but I'm sure your ideas are better than mine :) Hope you can help.
Rose
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Yeah .. it's quite common for beginners without guidance to have this exact experience. Shame, really. I've been there myself and it can be very disheartening.
My advise is to for now, stop doing magic for yourself, and instead do magic for other people. This is - oh, about 78,000,0000% easier by far and the main reason why you get so many highly talented witches living in trailer parks!
When you pick someone you do a spell for, make sure that it DOES NOT BENEFIT YOU in any way to be doing it; so doing a spell for your boyfriend to love you more or become more romantic definitely doesn't count. A spell for a second cousin you aren't that close to to get a better job or a new car or whatever, on the other hand, that's perfect because you're not involved in the outcomes.
Be sure to have a short conference with your target's higher self so they're ok with the spell you're doing (they mostly laugh but if they should object, it's good to know before you start and you can think of something, or someone else instead who welcomes your attentions).
Then cast the spell, sit back and you get to observe the results of your magical actions.
As this is sooo much easier than anything that involves yourself (think of a dentist trying to drill their own teeth!), you'll regain your confidence and learn new things all the while.
Very importantly, you get to know yourself and your magic a lot better, so when the time comes and you feel like you can do something for yourself and have it succeed, all will be well.
Lastly, I would STRONGLY recommend to strengthen your relationship with your main guide/guardian angel/friend/spirit guide so that you're not doing this alone.
Sending you a bright spring green ball of energy too,
StarFields
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Rose writes:
First of all thanks for a great website I'm on here everyday. I've got a bit of a problem. I've been practising magic now for several months but nothing I've done has worked. I've lost confidence in it which I know will just mean that things don't work again and I seem to be trapped in this vicious cycle. Is there anything I could do just to restore my confidence. A very small spell that I could see working quite quickly would be ideal but I'm sure your ideas are better than mine :) Hope you can help.